
It would not have surprised anyone to learn that Rosemary and Gene Rapley passed away within six weeks of each other; after 65 years of marriage, even when their infirmities separated them, the two were one.
More surprising to many might be the extent of the quiet charitable giving to the University of Ïăœ¶ÊÓÆ”APP â Fort Smith that the Rapleys undertook during their lives. They made steady gifts over four decades, with a recent bequest of $50,000 to the Gene and Rosemary Rapley Scholarship Endowment. Income from the endowment funds provides scholarships for full-time students.
Even their daughter Nancy Fagan was surprised when she learned theyâd given $175,000 to the university over the years. She was surprised, but not shocked.
âI wasnât aware of the total they gave, but I think itâs great,â she said. âDad was just so proud of the university.â
Gene Rapley grew up in Fort Smith. He met his bride-to-be when both were attending the University of Ïăœ¶ÊÓÆ”APP at Fayetteville, according to their son Gil Rapley in his eulogy of his parents.
Rosemary Meriwether was from Paragould, Ark., but her father, Capt. Bill Meriwether, was stationed at Fort Chaffee. So when Gene offered rides to Fort Smith for the Thanksgiving holiday, Rosemary went along for the ride. The rest was history.
Both Gil Rapley and Fagan say their parents complemented each other. Rosemary was a reflection of her family and was more spontaneous and fun-loving. Gene, Gil said, was a true gentleman who never raised his voice, never complained, and was devoted to his church and community. Gil calls his dadâs sense of humor quirky.
Gene Rapley became involved in Westark Community College when he served on the board of trustees for 14 years; he was president of the board in 1977.
When asked to explain her parentsâ gifts, Nancy Fagan said gratitude was a tenet of her dadâs life.
âMy dad was adopted,â she explained. âHe was so grateful to his parents, Ruth and Juba Rapley, who adopted him. He felt he was just so fortunate. You never know how your life is going to turn out, but his life could have been completely different. He was always aware of that.â
People who couldnât afford a college education held a special place in his heart, she said. âHe wanted other young people to have the advantages heâd been lucky enough to have.â
âMy dad was proud of all things Fort Smith,â Fagan said. âHe was especially proud of Westark and UAFS. When we would come home for visits, he would always take us out to show us the new things in town. We used to call them âcaptive car rides.â Heâd take us out ostensibly to see one thing, and we would finally get back to the house three hours later. He was just so proud of Fort Smith!â